The Top Types Of Women Men Should Avoid For Long Term Relationships.
Men, don’t needlessly complicate your lives. Watch out for and avoid these characters.
Single Mothers
Men. Understand that a single mother is not your duty to save. Most of the time, she’s in her predicament by choice. Her kids, understandably, will always come before you. Additionally, if you do decide to date one, and she insists on you being part of her kid's life, you get the proud distinction of having all the responsibilities of another man’s spawn and none of the authority.
In most cases, you’d also have to deal with the baby daddy or ex-husband.
I have zero interest in another man’s children. You?
Given the option between a woman with kids in tow and another without children, all other things equal, the choice is obvious.
Feminists
I see feminism as a major blow to society and the success of the family unit. Women being sold the lie that they can be and do anything a man can, and that a “woman don’t need no man”, has resulted in fewer marriages and countless broken homes.
Feminism has also created generations of women who are essentially dysfunctional men (working professionals, executives, etc.) who now have impossibly high standards for a romantic partner. (Remember what hypergamy does.) Most men have no chance in the modern dating world as a result, as all the women are chasing after the top 10% of men (who in turn have countless options).
Yes, men and women do and should have equal rights under the law, but how many women would have been happy being subject to military conscription (the draft)?
How many women are happy to take their turn responding to the sound of a window breaking at 3 AM? Where are all the feminists complaining about the lack of women represented in construction, oil rigging, coal mining, and power lining?
Crickets…
The reality is that feminism today is a supremacist movement. The idea that no woman should ever do anything for the explicit purpose or benefit of a man, is the gist of it.
In reality, men and women aren’t equal so much as they are complimentary.
Brothers, avoid the girl power crowd.
Boss-Babes
Argumentative, bossy women are a big turn-off and a headache to deal with. If you are a masculine, virtuous man (you should be), boss-babes will always be looking to challenge and compete with you. If you are plugged in Beta (my condolences), they will run your life. Boss babes will never be a compliment to your life.
I have known too many relationships fall apart because the woman was a boss-babe. Loud, opinionated, constantly telling the man what to do and how things will be. Running the show. Frankly, it's masculine behavior and very unattractive in a woman.
Again, a boss-babe will never accept your frame. Steer clear, gentleman.
Women With High Notch Counts
I know some people will be quick to claim double standards when it comes to how many people a man has had sex with vs a woman.
The reality is that men and women have very different mating strategies and windows to reproduce. Men can father children into old age and are evolutionarily designed to do so as often as possible.
Women who party and fornicate away their twenties to “find themselves” are filling up their trauma bank, diminishing their sexual value, possibly being Alpha-widowed, and wasting their best fertile years.
A classic Chad is universally attractive to women. I have covered before how women love a man other women like. Women are naturally attracted to men of status and experience. Not the virgin guy standing in the corner at the dance.
Conversely, men have an evolutionary reason to dislike women that have been run through. Before the ability to test paternity, the only assurance a child was yours was knowing you were the only person your woman has been with.
Countless studies have shown that the more men a woman has been with sexually, the lower her ability to successfully pair bond with one man. It's an exponential, inverse correlation.
Both these facts are why virginity is so valued across cultures.
The good news is that young people today are reporting fewer sexual partners. Let’s hope this phenomenon holds.
Men, remember, if she’s giving you sex straight away, the same goes for anyone else.
Heavily Tattooed And Pierced Women
Tattoos on a woman are like bumper stickers on a Porsche 911.
Nose rings, excessive or odd ear piercings, and face studs are immediate red flags. Right up there with purple hair.
A woman’s body and the female form are a gift of unimaginable proportions. There is nothing more beautiful.
Women who plaster their bodies in ink, enduring hours of discomfort and pain to do so, are often compensating for and documenting trauma. Tattoos are akin to the bright colors of a poisonous tree frog.
Guys, don’t lick the frog.
Women Who Are Bad With Money (Spendthrifts and Debt Queens)
Given the time I spend on this blog covering financial topics, I would be remiss to leave this category of women out. The fact is, a woman who is reckless with money will never be a compliment to your financial success and efforts in building wealth.
Just like you should be aiming for a kind, gentle, feminine woman, like the kind
intelligently details here, you should be screening for frugality and responsibility with resources.
Gents, be wary of the shopaholics.
Those are my top types on women to avoid. I could add in women that keep men from their past around, or women who regularly post revealing photos of themselves online, but I am interested in hearing your thoughts.
What kinds of women do you personally look to avoid? Do you take issue with any of the points I have discussed here?
Thanks for reading.
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